Wedding Dress

Hello Friends,

In India, as a general rule of thumb, the Suit or Sherwani is the cornerstone of men's wedding fashion..where as Sarees, Choli, Ghagra, Lehenga etc. are for bride. As usual, we are just sharing few ideas to make the centre stage different and memorable.

1) Try to find out a fashion designing institute near by your area. Discuss with some young, energetic student. Select one of them to design your wedding dress. They will do it for experience, where you don't have to pay any money or a little amount. At the end, you are wearing a designer outfit at your special day.

2) Special for Bride: You can go for the same saree or bridal dress, used by your mother on her wedding day. This is an unique way of showing your love to parents.

3) Can choose your traditional attire. It shows your passion in heritage and respect towards ypour own culture and rituals.

                                                              :::::Happy Wedding:::::::

 

Marriage Songs

As per my knowledge, in each and evry culyure, there are some traditional marrige songs. These songs are an important aspects of marriage. More of the songs, describes about, advices for a better family life, the feelings of parents for loosing their daughter, making their daughter away from themselves, the relatives feeling for the lovely bride, the silly happenings done by bride at her early life, the affection among siblings etc.............

       In Oriya (Odisa, a state of India) culture, there are marriage songs for bride, bride's mother, bride's aunty and for few others. They will sing and cry for their daughter being going away, far away from them.

       Now, come to point, reason of describing this ritual of marriage, You can apply this and make a diiferent to your wedding. Yes, collect the data about marriage songs. Go for a printing option. Print 3 to 5 pages of marriage songs and distribute among friends, relatives etc... You can also distribute this along with Invitation Card.

            Make a littile different. I don't know about you, but surely, I will.......

Is it bound for Groom, to go by car in Barat..

Hi Friends,
Today some different thoughts came to my mind. Why 99.99% of the groom choosing normal way of transportation during BARAT or PROCESSION or Way to Mandap. Everyody in fond of using Cars or Horse. To make something different, guys are trying expensive cars on rental.
           If, somebody interested to make this aspect of marriage memorable, try the following options..
1) Bullock Cart as per our tradition...
2) Horse cart, something with a modern touch...
3) Gulf-Course cart, Making it sporty.....
4) "Palinki" or "Palkin", with a pure Indian touch....
5) Riding on elephant, on way to bride's place..a king style wedding.
6) Your own / family car....
7) Your Father's first car...
8) The car used for your parent's marriage...
9) A chartered helicopter on rent for 30 minutes...
10) A sky diving on a ground near by bride's home & a walk to mandap from that place..
11) Using a open hood GYPSY....
12) Going in a Volvo bus with the barati / friends...

Why always "X weds Y" sign at entrance...

In India, we are commonly attached with a sign "....X...weds.....Y...." in every marriage or reception entrance. Most of us use the same kind of sign. See, If you can try few of the followings..... to get a new touch. It's a silly change, but marks a lot. Adds tons of value to make your marriage memorable..

1) Welcome to the wedding of X and her Mr. Right Y
2) X weds her Mr. Right Y
3) X knotsY
4) Saddi Ke Bandhan mein X and Y
5) Samaya ke Pahiyee mein X and Y
6) X and Y on a happy journey of life
7) X as U and Y as Me..aur aaj se hum..
8) Sometime friends, now couple..X and Y
9) Chalte chalte X ties Y
10) X with Y for rest of life..
11) X as Bride, Y as Groom..
12) Let the begining of a new story with X and Y

A book for happy relationship

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus is a book written by American author, and relationship counselor, John Gray.
               Most of common relationship problems between men and women are a result of fundamental differences between the genders, which the author exemplifies by means of the book's eponymous metaphor: that men and women are from distinct planets, – men fromMars and women fromVenus – and that each gender is acclimated to its own planet's society and customs, but not those of the other.
      Truly, this book will help to understand the needs and requirements of different gender. Men are women are not different from each other physically but also in thought process, demands, habits, natures etc...   It can make a couple's life better....

Its not about only one day

Today, I swa the Hindi movie, "Mausam"..staring by Sahid Kapoor....
                        I like a scene, where the young couple making art works"Palm signs" on wall with paints...So simple...but helps in making relationship. Love is not for one day or for a year. It should be there everytime, in every aspect. Mostly young couples stop enjoying their rlationships after 2 to 3 years of marriage. Everybody get busy in earning money or doing things for the present or upcoming family members. Where as, they forget to enjoy thier relations, cheering the happy moments in day to day life.
      They shows artificial loves, as they are husband and wife by law. Husband celebrate her birthday commonly because being its her birthday, celebration is must. The spirit of 1st time birthday, decreases year by year....
     There is a requirement of celebrating each moment. Do silly silly activties to cheer the moments. In "Shabad" fim (Staring by Sanjay dutt & Aiswarya), the couple try to play a game, who can make the more no. of CHUTKI by fingers....
       How romantic...............

A diiferent Venue..for Marriage

People are getting married at Aeroplanes, under water, inside of Coal mines, Hot air baloons to mark a different, to make their wedding memorable...  These all ways are expensive also. Why don't you try the following ones....

1) Go for a picnic with family, relatives, friends on early morning and after reaching the place, let's announce your plan for getting married at the same place.., give surprise to everybody.(Make pre-arrangement for marriage through close friends).

2) Hire a big boat or launcher having capacity of 200 to 300 people. invite your guests to the boat and get married.

3) Select a beach near by and get married there.

4) Select a mountain or a hill, close to your locality. Clean few yards of area, having a pathway to reach the specific place. Get married...

5) Go to a forest, Take permission from local authorities and get married ....

6) Make some contact with the zoo authorities and get married inside of Zoo.. Looking dangerious but a memorable one....

7) Go to your birth place, your parent's birth place... get married in the village....

8) Select a dry river, get married and throw a party on the sands...

9) Sands, yes..... Why don't choose a dessert.... sands, sands, and sands, only sands... in between some people are enjoying marriage party thrown by you....

10) You want a Daring one. Ok.. choose a graveyard and make it your married place....