Ring bearer @ wedding

If we will follow the simple meaning of words, “The Ring Bearer” is the child attendant, who bears the wedding ring and represents it on a velvet cushion to the groom when he arrives at the mandap or stage. The ring bearer can be either a boy or girl, as it’s a less traditional position in the wedisphere. Comparing to “The Train Bearer”, it’s usually undertaken by a child closer to the family, such as a son or daughter, rather than a cousin or a niece or a friend’s child. Having a ring bearer is a great way to include family members in your wedding ceremony.

Owing to what can go wrong if you entrust a young child with an expensive and pivotal wedding ring, there are a few sneaky secrets to this practice to prevent disaster. The ring is either lightly sewn into the cushion’s fabric so it’s not accidentally deposited halfway down the aisle, or instead it is already in the pocket of any elder family member (best man in western culture) all along with a fake ring on the cushion (OMG!)

 

Want to make it more surprise! Once again read the simple meaning of “The Ring Bearer” and go for a 10 minute brain storming session. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 minutes pass and still confused. Dear reader, how about choosing your beloved pet for this role. Yes! I am talking about your Tipu/Sheru/Kitty/Saharukh/Rani etcetera. Choose this option, if you feel comfortable and speak to the temple/church/civil venue to ensure that they’re ok with your pet having a cameo role.

Flower Girl @ wedding

Who is Flower Girl? In broadest terms it is a girl associated with flowers. However, in real life wedding, flowers girls have several roles. The main purpose of flower girl is to make the kids, a part of the special day and to enhance the beauty of wedding ceremony.

In ancient time, flower girls performed different roles with different aspects. Modern flower girls always precede the bride down the aisle. They may carry flower baskets or spread pretty petals. Also, flower girls can carry the sign of “Here Comes the Bride”. Taking photos with bride is another important duty for flower girl. Remember, it is always best to take photos of flower girls as early as possible into the celebration. There is less chance that their outfits will be in a soiled, torn or wrinkled state and smiles on face.

Like ring bearers and train bearer, flower girls are usually members of the bride's or bridegroom's extended family, but may also be friends. Her male equivalent is the ring bearer. Often the ring bearer and the flower girl are dressed to look like a couple, and they may be dressed in miniature versions of the bride's and bridegroom's clothes. They can also go for separate design of attire. There is no thumb rule for dress code except following some basic guides.

When choosing the style of your flower girl’s dress, keep in mind that you want to stay within the style of the wedding. Check the colour and design should have synergy with your wedding theme. Choose tea-length dress over floor –length and make sure the socks or tights that you choose to go the style of the dress.



Buy some jewelry for the perfect finishing touch to the flower girl attire. Simple, classic jewelry is the most popular choice for flower girls. Since the dresses are often simple in neckline, classic pieces are a charming accessory. Want to catch the current trend. Flower girl tutus are taking the wedding fashion industry by storm. Check the same, for your flower girl.

Give some gifts to flower girl, to perform her duties in a better way. Goodie bags - filled with nutritious treats, crayons, paper, water, and small travel games - are also a special touch. Avoid chocolate and candy - both for the inevitable sugar rush as well as the possibility of stains.

Yet flower girls never fail to steal our hearts. The beautiful bride and the sweet flower girl always steal the show! Flower girls have enchanted wedding guests throughout the centuries.